We lost a friend.
When I heard Yemisi had passed, my knees became weak but I saw her just 2 weeks ago I kept
saying. I planned to visit her as soon as she came home from the hospital. I even
imagined going to pray with her and encouraging her, telling her that she’ll be
okay, she’ll have her baby safe and sound but it was never to be- she didn’t come
back home.
I recently read a story about a man who woke up in the
morgue, will this happen to Yemisi too? Will she wake up. I think about her a
lot, she was beautiful, brilliant, funny, creative, stylish. People keep asking
why someone so young and pretty should just die like that.
I had the privilege of spending a lot of time with her when
she moved to the flat below me, she looked so lonely so asked her to come ad visit
anytime she got bored and she accepted my invitation. We talked a lot well she
did most of the talking, I just listened and laughed a lot. She was really
practical and insightful and she knew what she wanted oh she wanted a lot of
things. She was a fashion designer, a project manager an event organizer, she
wanted to be on the media, she loved reality shows. I told her all she wanted
will come in good time.
We drifted apart later but we still spoke once in a while. I
know she loved her job. She loved her
husband a lot too.
These past days I have thought a lot about the things we
talked about. I thank God for the privilege of knowing her and being able to
share those times with her. I keep wondering if she can see all of us right
now. Yemisi did you know you were leaving or did it take you by surprise too? Who
will decorate the estate for Christmas? Who will cook those lovely dishes you
used to make? though we only tasted of the delicious aroma.
Doc looks so sad, will you visit him once in a while in his
dreams? The kids that loved you so much wont even know what happened to you. They’ll
just get used to not seeing you again.
Tears filled my eyes today as I looked at you portrait, they
captured your smile and the brightness of your eyes. I believe you are with God right now, that
means you have overcome. We are the ones left to continue the race. Beautiful things
were said about you today and it was all true. You were a gift to all who new
you.
What will be said about me when I’m gone?
I will live my life truthfully, without pretence, I will
keep my words, finish every thing I start, obey the promptings of the holy
spirit. I will live a full life so that when I’m gone I would have finished. We would talk when I see you again, maybe pick up were we drifted apart.
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